I have always thought that it is important to be polite even when someone is clearly not the same (rude, aggressive, dismissive, uninterested etc). I started off blogging with this in mind, always be courteous, always be kind, never swear and get people to talk without fear of judgement..
Fast forward to today and I get plenty of emails along the lines of 'I'm terrified my hair is going to be 4c or I transitioned and I cannot believe my hair is the worst of them all, 4c.' I honestly think some of you are testing my patience, either that or you think I am nicer than I really am and will entertain you.
Can I please say that being terrified of your hair texture is just plain old daft. I almost said stupid but I thought I would soften the blow a little bit as only peculiar English can. The way your hair grows is how it will grow. Instead of being terrified, wait for your hair to grow out and learn how to style it and appreciate it for what it is and not what it is not.
Are you a blogger? What did you start out doing that you are now being pushed to rethink? Are you bored to death of the type 4 hair bashing?